A relationship can sometimes be very difficult to understand, intriguing like life itself.  One day it may seem hopeful, the other day bereft, one day head over heels in love, the next day hateful and one day your relationship may be steady, the next day it may be a ship tossing in violent waters. and to nurture a perfect relationship may seem unattainable.

Being happy and optimistic is wonderful, and is also good for your relationship. Happiness actually protects you from the stresses of life. Stress is linked to top causes of failures and health issues like heart disease, cancer and stroke. Love is the epitome of happiness, you need to be happy in order to be in love with your partner.

One of the best quotes of Abraham Lincoln,“Most people are about as happy as they make up their minds to be.”

Some ideas on how you can achieve this:


Respect your partner.

People are different, accept your partner for who or what he or she is. Avoid arguments, constant squabbles, high expectations and let go of all kinds of resentments. There is a saying that when you resent somebody, you become entrapped in a mental bondage to that someone and this is bad in a relationship.  Avoid topics that bring negativity. If disagreement seems unavoidable, still try and make an effort to understand the situation and you might just get along well.


Being grateful to your partner is a great attitude.

When you are committed, you have so much to be thankful for. Thank your partner for a lovely drive, acknowledge him/her for a wonderful dinner. Having a thankful attitude towards each other is like a grain of salt to flavor each day for a long-lasting romance.


Celebrate your moment of togetherness

Life is hectic and this may take a toll on your relationship. It is important to remind yourself of the special moments, like the first date, anniversary, birthdays etc. Time management is crucial in growing a relationship. Spend time with your lover, express your feelings, affections, friendship and passion.



Sex and more sex

This is true, sex is like icing to a perfect cake. It is not about the physical act but it help nurture the mental and emotional bond. Like they say -‘Laughter is the best medicine’, you may agree that sex is the best thing for a relationship. The market is filled with innovative sex toys to make the bedroom act adventurous and spicy. Love dolls being the latest addition, these lifelike sex dolls will help you share your sexual fantasy which you otherwise would feel awkward to explore. You may not support threesome, but using a sex doll is definitely not cheating. There are shemale dolls which are perfect for couples.


And always remember – The only thing in life that will always remain the same is ‘change’. Even if you find the situation unbearable and the relationship dying you can always find solace in the knowledge that it too would change. Happiness is the core of life and relationship, choose to be happy to give your relationship another try.